Each month, we’re breaking down what’s going on in your life. Read on as Donna Page, a professional astrologer with a graduate degree in counseling psychology, gives it to you straight.
It may be getting cold outside, but your sex life is about to heat up. The full moon on the 3rd just happens to line up perfectly with the weekend, making it a perfect opportunity to party it up with your current S.O. Single? Go out with friends—someone interesting is sure to catch your eye.
At the end of the month, Venus, the planet of love and money, goes into Capricorn, leaving you with a strong urge to give other people props when they deserve it. So tell your bedmate how much you loved that new move they tried. They won’t hesitate to whip it out again in the future.
Around New Year’s Eve, you’ll want to be surrounded by people you can laugh with, so make sure you’re spending the night with someone who knows how to lighten the mood—in and outside the bedroom.
Here’s what else is in store for you this month:
It’s easy to shuffle people into a “friend” or “lover” category, but this month the lines become a little blurry. You’ll meet someone sexy who you genuinely like spending time with or a friend may suddenly turn into something more. Go with it, but don’t put pressure on yourself to figure out where it’s going. Mercury in retrograde will create a deep connection there but it’s okay to want to keep things low-key for now. Mars, the planet of energy, action, and desire, moves through the sexy sector of your chart making you, well, horny in the process. You’ll feel super-sexy as a result, and it’s not going to go unnoticed.
Mars floating through Scorpio opposite your sign from the 10th through the end of the year leaves you inspired to do your best. You’ll suddenly notice that your S.O. has been bringing their A-game to bed, inspiring you to stop phoning it in. The universe wants you to create deep, intimate connections this month, making it a perfect time to dive under the covers with someone and stay there for a while. Venus travels through Sagittarius for most of the month, causing you to turn more than a few heads. Someone interesting has their eye on you…
Get ready, Gem: There’s a lot coming your way this month. The new moon on the 18th is highlighting the sector of your chart that represents other people. If you’re single, someone new will be warming your bed soon. When Saturn shifts into Capricorn on the 19th, the energy shifts into a sector of your chart that’s symbolic of going deep—and that can be figurative or literal. How important is it for you to connect with the person that you’re sleeping with, really? You may decide that you need a side of intimacy with your sex life, or you may be totally cool with a FWB. Whatever you do, just make sure you’re both on the same page. Venus goes into Capricorn on the 25th, creating an energy of wanting to be around people who respect what you want and don’t want. So tell your partner if things haven’t been as good as they can be lately, and offer up some suggestions for things that actually do it for you. The feedback will be appreciated.
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Get ready to party, Cancer. You’ll be flooded with invites to holiday parties this year and, while you can’t make everything, don’t say no to invitations from work friends. The universe has plans to introduce you to someone new and spicy there. Mars, the planet of action, goes through the sector of your chart that represents sprucing up your place, so splurge on those silk sheets you’ve been eyeballing. On the 19th through the rest of the month, there’s nice energy shining back at you. Suddenly, new people are coming into your life, including someone you want to get to know a little better. If you’re in a relationship, things will just…click. Given how well you work together, now might be a good time to try out that athletic new sex position you’ve been mulling over.
This month, you’ll get off from having a lover who also doubles as a friend. You need someone you can Netflix and chill with, after all, and having someone around who can make you laugh is even better. When you’re going out with your S.O., don’t hesitate to extend an invite to friends, too. You’ll have enough QT together at the end of the night. Venus, the planet of love and money, is spending the majority of the month in your house of romance, making it a very good time for your love life. So, don’t hesitate to bust out the candles and massage oil in bed—it will be very appreciated. (Try this Intimate Earth massage oil from the Women’s Health Boutique.)
You’re going to do some thinking this month, Virgo, and the answers you come up with might surprise you. The new moon on the 3rd makes you want to dig deep to figure out what you want in bed and why. When Saturn shifts into Capricorn, it moves into the sector of your chart representing love affairs and romance, creating all kinds of possibilities for you. Suddenly, you’ll have the urge to kick things up a notch in bed (your partner won’t complain, trust). If you’re single, you’ll start thinking about what and who you actually want in an S.O. New Year’s Eve will give you a serious urge to get out and connect with others, so plan on spending it with someone you’re really into. Single? Keep your eyes open. Someone new and interesting may cross your path that night.
You want what you want, when you want it, Libra, and you’re going to get it. Mars, the planet of action and desire, is in your sign until the 9th, making you kind of a hard-ass in the give-and-take department. After all, why should you compromise when you know what you want? Venus, the planet of love and money, creates a feeling of hope and optimism about your sex life. Sure, the sex wasn’t amazing with your new fling the first time around, but it will definitely better during round two. You’ll feel a newfound freedom to be able to define what you want in a relationship—and you’ll actually get it. Don’t hesitate to speak your mind. It’ll get your further than you think.
Get ready to bust out the lube, Scorpio: Your month is starting out with a bang (literally). The full moon on the 3rd creates a very sexy weekend for you, vibrating your 8th house of sensuality and intuition. BTW: Someone that you’ve had your eye on is into you—don’t be afraid to pursue it. At the end of the month, energy shifts into the sector of your chart about communication, making you want people to be straight with you. Did you like that new couples toy you tried or not? You can handle the truth—and so can your partner. New Year’s Eve creates another very sexy time for you. The universe is telling you to get intimate with somebody you actually care about, so maybe save the booty call for another weekend. If you’re single, take a look around at your New Year’s party—someone worth pursuing is there.
Venus, the planet of love and money, is hanging out in your sign until the 25th, creating a sexy energy for you. If you’re not in a relationship, someone is going to seriously pursue you. You’ll feel super flirty this month, which translates into the bedroom, too. Work it into a little bondage play to kick things up a notch. The full moon on the 3rd creates a great energy for fun and laughter, so plan a special date with your S.O. around this time. On New Year’s Eve, the moon will be opposite your sign in Gemini, making it a great time to be out with someone you consider a friend and lover. If you aren’t in a relationship, now is a great time to meet someone new. They’ll have a lot of the same values as you—and a “random” hookup could turn out to be much more.
Your friends know what’s up, Capricorn, and this month they’re going to hook you up. On the 9th, Mars shifts into Scorpio, activating your house of friendship. If you’re single, your friends will try to set you up (don’t say no—you’ll be surprised who they come up with). If you’re in a relationship, you’ll learn some cool new bedroom techniques from your buddies. Try them out on your partner, who will be seriously impressed. On the 25th, Venus, the planet of love and money, moves into your sign creating a positive energy around your relationships. Suddenly things you’ve always wanted will come your way. New Year’s Eve weekend is super strong for you when it comes to sex, so plan on spending it with someone who’s a sure thing.
It’s time for jazz music and candles, Aquarius—your month is starting out on a seriously romantic note. The full moon on the 3rd highlights your house of romance, making it the perfect time for slow, sweet sex. If you’re single, don’t turn down an invite to hit up a party with your BFF. Somebody there will definitely catch your eye. If you’re in a relationship, take your S.O. along to join your friends out. They’ll have way more fun that you anticipated, creating a fun new energy in your love life. The end of the month leaves you with an urge to take a breather, even if it’s just staying in for the night with your partner. Having a little rejuvenation will leave you with more energy than ever—and you know where you can burn off a little of it…
You’ve got fantasies, Pisces, and you’re ready to make them happen. The full moon on the 3rd starts the month off on a dreamy note for you. What do you want in bed that you’re not getting now? And how can you actually make it happen? You know the answer, so don’t be afraid to just do it already. Mercury in retrograde makes you rethink what you want in a bedmate. Is your current flame really making you feel satisfied? You don’t have to have all the answers now, but keep it on the backburner so you can figure out what you really need. A friend may invite you to theirs for New Year’s Eve—don’t say no. The night could have a seriously sexy impact on your love life.
Source: Women’s Health Mag